In Her Own Words
About Her
My friends describe me as bubbly, compassionate and warm.
I listen to music when I'm happy or sad or I can't sleep ( although I would prefer being cuddled to sleep). Love to laugh. Tough (when needed) with a tender heart. Get excited about small things.
Love the Lord and He is the cornerstone of my life.
My baggage dumped somewhere long ago.
PS My 2 sons (20 & 24) live with me. Since they are quite able to brush their own teeth, I am free to come and go as I please.
PPS Did I mention that I make a mean malva pudding?
About Her Ideal Match
I have reached the stage of my life where I have enough friends and people to do fun activities with. What I don't have is a special person that I want to spend my whole life with. So I don't want to date for the sake of dating. At the same time I'm realistic enough to know that every relationship won't end in marriage. We date to see whether it can develop into something more. Don't be scared that I will start planning the wedding when you send me the 1st message - I will wait until the 3rd date for that. Just kidding. LOL
What am I looking for in my future husband?
Someone that can talk for hours with me or enjoy a companionable silence. My best friend as well as my soul mate. Who can share the everyday moments with me as well as those memories that we store up.
Qualities I admire:
A child of God who has a relationship with Him
Intelligence
A wacky sense of humor and the ability to laugh when things are difficult
Knowledge about a variety of subjects
The ability to challenge me
Someone who loves to cuddle
A protector
The little girl in me still believes in love and I can't wait for the day that I meet my special person. I will be his biggest fan. :-)
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Pretorius Park), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
156cm (5' 1.4") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Centurion; Pretoria; Midrand (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
48 - 59 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Pink |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Muzak; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Religious; Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Mystery; Romance; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Computer & video games; Gardening; Investing; Making Music; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Baseball; Basketball; Bodyboarding; Camping; Canoeing; Cricket; Cycling; Extreme sports; Fishing; Golf; Gymnastics; Hiking; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rock climbing; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skiing; Sky diving; Snooker; Snowboarding; Softball; Squash; Surf skiing/kayaking; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Triathlon; Volleyball; Walking; Water skiing; White water rafting; Windsurfing |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time Online: |
Less than once a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Chat South Africa: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
