In His Own Words
About Him
Fun loving. Love laughter. I've been told I'm brilliant in bed 😂. Come chat and let's see what happens, maybe we hit it off and get happy 😁
About His Ideal Match
Fun loving. Love laughter. Outdoors type. Up for anything. If you're kinky in bed even better. I enjoy rope play and toys.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Brakpan, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
159cm (5' 2.6") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 159cm (5' 2.6") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; White | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Italian; Korean; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional; Regular; Heavy; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; Navel ring; Pierced tongue; More piercings; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The genitals |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Sarcastic; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Punk; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Cooking; Gardening; Reading; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Archery; Backgammon; Birdwatching; Bowling; Bungee jumping; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Extreme sports; Fishing; Hiking; Orienteering; Pool; Rock climbing; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Chat South Africa: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |